{"id":2555,"date":"2026-04-05T22:33:46","date_gmt":"2026-04-05T22:33:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/?p=2555"},"modified":"2026-04-05T22:36:58","modified_gmt":"2026-04-05T22:36:58","slug":"anneme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/anneme\/","title":{"rendered":"Anneme…"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Anneme…<\/h2>

bug\u00fcn annemin ya\u015fg\u00fcn\u00fc\u2026 annemin k\u0131z\u0131 olman\u0131n ne demek oldu\u011funu ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frendim de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n annesi olman\u0131n annem i\u00e7in nas\u0131l bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu tam olarak kestiremiyorum. D\u00f6rt tane birbirinden olduk\u00e7a farkl\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan anneme \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 naz n\u00fckte kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r herhalde. D\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuk dile kolay\u2026 K\u0131zan\u0131 var, k\u00fcseni var, a\u011flayan\u0131 var, sitem edeni var, ele\u015ftireni var, be\u011fenmeyeni var, ak\u0131l vereni var, birbiriyle zaman zaman kavga edeni, dar\u0131lan\u0131 var, bu liste uzar da gider. Anneme bak\u0131yorum da d\u00f6rt canavara kar\u015f\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131na k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir kad\u0131n y\u0131llard\u0131r dimdik ayakta duruyor, y\u0131lm\u0131yor, y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131yor. Aksine, y\u0131llarla beraber teflon tava gibi leke tutmamaya ba\u015flad\u0131, yap\u0131lan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015f\u0131mar\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, bencilli\u011fi at\u0131yor \u00fczerinden , incinse de belli etmiyor, al\u0131nsa da k\u00fcsm\u00fcyor, eskiden daha otoriter olan annem \u015fimdilerde yumu\u015fat\u0131c\u0131 ile y\u0131kanm\u0131\u015f pamuklu kazak gibi pofuduk pofuduk. Dayanamad\u0131m s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 sordum, nas\u0131l oluyor da zaman yolculu\u011funda b\u00f6yle evrilebildi, o her\u015feyi ele\u015ftiren, beklentileri olan sert kad\u0131n nas\u0131l \u015fimdilerde bu kadar anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ve yumu\u015fak bir hale b\u00fcr\u00fcnebildi? Dedi ki \u201ene yapay\u0131m, art\u0131k anlad\u0131m ki \u00e7ocuk dedi\u011fin \u015fey al\u0131nca bir daha geri verilmiyor\u2026 bende sizi oldu\u011funuz gibi kabul ediyorum, bu i\u015fimi kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor\u201c \u00d6nce \u00e7ok g\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm bu c\u00fcmle sonras\u0131 baya\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrd\u00fc. Evet ya, ger\u00e7ekten de \u00f6yle de\u011fil mi? \u015eu hayatta her\u015feyi, herkesi geriye verebilir, yerine yenisini alabilirsin\u2026 Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u015f ho\u015funa gitmez, i\u015f b\u0131rak\u0131r ba\u015fka bir i\u015f yapars\u0131n; hayat\u0131na ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n insanla yollar\u0131n ayr\u0131l\u0131r, ba\u015fkas\u0131 ile devam edersin; eski arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bir zaman gelir yeni arkada\u015flara de\u011fi\u015firsin; o \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fin yerde art\u0131k ya\u015famak istemezsin, baska yere ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131r gidersin, hatta ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n ete\u011fi bile 14 g\u00fcn icinde iade etme hakk\u0131n var\u2026 yani herkesin, herseyin iadesi ve takas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn gibi duruyor \u015fu hayatta, ama s\u00f6z konusu \u00e7ocuk olunca, durum de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Halini, tavr\u0131n\u0131, tipini be\u011fenmedi\u011fi \u00e7ocu\u011funu g\u00f6t\u00fcreyim de daha iyisi ile de\u011fi\u015ftireyim demiyor hi\u00e7 bir anne. En az\u0131ndan benim tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m hi\u00e7 bir anneden hen\u00fcz b\u00f6yle bir\u015fey ne duydum ne g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Pek tabii ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p, giden anneler biliyorum, \u015fartlar bunu gerektirdi\u011fi i\u00e7in bu zor karar\u0131 veren kad\u0131nlar\u2026 Onlar\u0131n niyeti de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklarla takas yapmak olmad\u0131 hi\u00e7.\u00a0<\/p>

Haydi toparlayal\u0131m, annelik zor i\u015f, olana oldu\u011fu gibi raz\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in y\u00fcce g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck gerekiyor. Yani i\u015fin s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zen anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek yerine, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerini \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 olduklar\u0131 gibi kabul edebilecek kadar b\u00fcy\u00fctebilen kad\u0131nlarm\u0131\u015f\u2026 Ben bilmem, annem \u00f6yle diyor.\u00a0<\/p>

\u015eimdi d\u00f6nelim ba\u015fa, iyi ki do\u011fmu\u015f par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011fum can\u0131m, daha nice sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015flara anac\u0131\u011f\u0131m! \ud83d\udc9b<\/p>

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5 Nisan 2026 \/ G\u00fclsen ADALI<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Anneme… bug\u00fcn annemin ya\u015fg\u00fcn\u00fc\u2026 annemin k\u0131z\u0131 olman\u0131n ne demek oldu\u011funu ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frendim de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n annesi olman\u0131n annem i\u00e7in nas\u0131l bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu tam olarak kestiremiyorum. D\u00f6rt tane birbirinden olduk\u00e7a farkl\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan anneme \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 naz n\u00fckte kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r herhalde. D\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuk dile kolay\u2026 K\u0131zan\u0131 var, k\u00fcseni var, a\u011flayan\u0131 var, sitem edeni var, ele\u015ftireni var, be\u011fenmeyeni […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2555","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tuerkce"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2555","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2555"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2555\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2559,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2555\/revisions\/2559"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2555"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2555"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2555"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}