{"id":2484,"date":"2025-08-01T13:14:37","date_gmt":"2025-08-01T13:14:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/?p=2484"},"modified":"2025-08-01T13:21:09","modified_gmt":"2025-08-01T13:21:09","slug":"mazaretmiyoksabahanemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/mazaretmiyoksabahanemi\/","title":{"rendered":"Mazaret mi yoksa bahane mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2484\" class=\"elementor elementor-2484\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f5934ff elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f5934ff\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b216b66\" data-id=\"b216b66\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;slideshow&quot;,&quot;background_slideshow_gallery&quot;:[{&quot;id&quot;:2485,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/guelsenadali.de\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2025\\\/08\\\/Hoian.jpg&quot;}],&quot;background_slideshow_slide_transition&quot;:&quot;slide_right&quot;,&quot;background_slideshow_slide_duration&quot;:5000,&quot;background_slideshow_transition_duration&quot;:500}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5a409ade elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5a409ade\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-40471d75\" data-id=\"40471d75\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3251b880 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3251b880\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Mazeret mi yoksa bahane mi?<\/h2><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>\u0130kisi de ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fil mi diyen sesinizi duyar gibiyim. Siz de hakl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, her\u015feyin m\u00fcthi\u015f h\u0131zland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00f6nemde kelimeler de bundan nasibine d\u00fc\u015feni al\u0131yor ve s\u0131rf ayn\u0131 \u015feyi \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclerek, kolayl\u0131k olsun diye e\u015f anlaml\u0131 kullan\u0131labiliyorlar. \u0130\u015fte mazeret ve bahane kelimeleri de birbirinin yerine kullan\u0131lan ama \u00f6z\u00fcnde ayn\u0131 olmayan durumlar\u0131 anlatan iki kelime olarak \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Mazeret demek elimizde olmayan sebeplerden dolay\u0131, istem d\u0131\u015f\u0131 olarak bir \u015feyi yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir durumu ifade etti\u011fimiz ve \u00e7o\u011fu kez anlay\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131lanan bir bilgidir. Bahane ise yapmak istemedi\u011fimiz, bir i\u015ften ka\u00e7\u0131nmak i\u00e7in ileriye s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz ve genellikle ger\u00e7ek olmayan bir nedendir. \u00d6rne\u011fin can\u0131m bir arkada\u015f\u0131mla bulu\u015fmak istemiyordur, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bahane olarak ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 uydurur, bulu\u015fmay\u0131 iptal ederim. Ancak ger\u00e7ekten ba\u015f\u0131m a\u011fr\u0131yor ve bulu\u015fmaya gidemiyorsam, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 mazeret olarak bildirir ve bulu\u015fmay\u0131 iptal ederim.<\/p><p>G\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00fczere bahane asl\u0131nda temelde yalan \u00fczerine kuruludur, mazeret ise do\u011fruyu konu\u015fur. E\u011fri otural\u0131m do\u011fru konu\u015fal\u0131m, hepimizin zaman zaman bahaneye ba\u015fvurdu\u011fu durumlar olmu\u015ftur ve olacakt\u0131r da, bu \u00f6yle yad\u0131rganacak, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenecek bir \u015fey de\u011fil. Burada m\u00fchim olan ki\u015finin bahaneye ba\u015fvurdu\u011funun fark\u0131nda olmas\u0131 ve bahaneyle mazereti birbirine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmamas\u0131. E\u011fer bizler bahanelerimizi birer mazeret olarak alg\u0131lamaya ba\u015flarsak, esas olandan kopar, sahte bir d\u00fcnyaya kendimizi hapsederiz. Zannederiz ki yapmad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, yapamad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden kelimeler aras\u0131ndaki farklar\u0131 bilmek ve kelimeleri do\u011fru kullanmak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli, insan olarak bizi di\u011fer canl\u0131lardan ay\u0131ran \u00f6zelliklerimizden biri de hayat\u0131 ve bu hayatta olan\u0131 biteni anlamland\u0131rabilme ve kelimeler ile ifade edebilme becerimizdir. Kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kelimeler bizim ger\u00e7ekli\u011fimizi belirler. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ben mazeret ile bahane aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 bilirsem, kelimeleri do\u011fru kullan\u0131rsam, ona g\u00f6re davran\u0131r\u0131m ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m da hayat\u0131ma y\u00f6n verir.<\/p><p>Peki ama bahane k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015feymidir? Ne m\u00fcnasabet, k\u00f6t\u00fc de\u011fil ama \u00e7ocuklara yak\u0131\u015fan bir \u015feydir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n isteklerini ve arzular\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ba\u015fvurduklar\u0131 kolay, sevimli bir yoldur. Geli\u015fen, hayatta ilerleyen insanlar\u0131n ise zamanla bahaneleri azal\u0131r, bahanelerin yerini net ifadeler, kararl\u0131 bir duru\u015f, d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir sadelik ve kendini cesurca ortaya koyma hali al\u0131r. Oynamay\u0131 bilmeyene oyna demi\u015fler, yerim dar demi\u015f&#8230; \u00a0Ne kadar kurnazca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f bir o kadar da yarat\u0131c\u0131 bir bahane de\u011fil mi? Oysa ki bahane uydurmaya sarfetti\u011fin efor yerine yal\u0131n bir \u015fekilde oynayam\u0131yorum desen, belki de birisi elinden tutup, oyuna dahil edecek seni ve sen oynamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freneceksin&#8230; Belki de hi\u00e7bir\u015fey s\u00f6ylemeden, sadece kalk\u0131p oynama cesaretini g\u00f6stersen, sahnenin y\u0131ld\u0131z\u0131 sen olacaks\u0131n, m\u00fcthi\u015f e\u011fleneceksin. Denemeden bilemezsin, ancak denemek icin ise bahaneleri bir kenara b\u0131rakmas\u0131n\u0131 bileceksin.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>A\u011fustos 2025 \/ G\u00fclsen ADALI<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mazeret mi yoksa bahane mi? \u0130kisi de ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fil mi diyen sesinizi duyar gibiyim. Siz de hakl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, her\u015feyin m\u00fcthi\u015f h\u0131zland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00f6nemde kelimeler de bundan nasibine d\u00fc\u015feni al\u0131yor ve s\u0131rf ayn\u0131 \u015feyi \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclerek, kolayl\u0131k olsun diye e\u015f anlaml\u0131 kullan\u0131labiliyorlar. \u0130\u015fte mazeret ve bahane kelimeleri de birbirinin yerine kullan\u0131lan ama \u00f6z\u00fcnde ayn\u0131 olmayan durumlar\u0131 [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2485,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tuerkce"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2484"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2484\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2490,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2484\/revisions\/2490"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2485"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}