{"id":2275,"date":"2025-03-11T22:35:05","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T22:35:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/?p=2275"},"modified":"2025-03-11T22:51:28","modified_gmt":"2025-03-11T22:51:28","slug":"kendikendinearkadasolmakonemlidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/kendikendinearkadasolmakonemlidir\/","title":{"rendered":"Kendi kendine arkada\u015f olmak \u00f6nemlidir"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2275\" class=\"elementor elementor-2275\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2dea648e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2dea648e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1e3320d\" data-id=\"1e3320d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d594ff elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"2d594ff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/IMG_7170-1024x768.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-2129\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/IMG_7170-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/IMG_7170-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/IMG_7170-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/IMG_7170-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/IMG_7170-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/IMG_7170-16x12.jpeg 16w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7dd07c22 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7dd07c22\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Kendi kendine arkada\u015f olmak \u00f6nemlidir<\/h2><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Ara ara kelimelerin pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fmek gibi\u00a0 bir huyum var benim, \u00e7ocukluktan gelen\u2026 Acaba nereden geliyor, k\u00f6keni nedir, anlam\u0131 nedir, basit bir kelime mi, t\u00fcremi\u015f mi yoksa bile\u015fik mi diye iz s\u00fcrerim. En son arkada\u015f kelimesine tak\u0131ld\u0131m\u2026 asl\u0131nda tak\u0131lmad\u0131m, kelime \u00f6n\u00fcme \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. \u0130nternette izledi\u011fim bir videoda arkada\u015f kelimesinin arka ve ta\u015f isimlerinden t\u00fcredi\u011fi anlat\u0131l\u0131yordu. Eski zamanlarda atalar\u0131m\u0131z ok atarken s\u0131rtlar\u0131n\u0131 yani arkalar\u0131n\u0131 bir ta\u015fa day\u0131yorlarm\u0131\u015f hatta s\u0131rttan yani arkadan vurulmamak i\u00e7in arkalar\u0131na bir ta\u015f ba\u011fl\u0131yorlarm\u0131\u015f. \u0130\u015fte s\u0131rt anlam\u0131na gelen arka ve ona ba\u011flanan ta\u015f bir araya gelip arkata\u015f kelimesini do\u011furmu\u015f. Zamanla arkata\u015f olmu\u015f arkada\u015f. G\u00fczel hik\u00e2ye l\u00e2kin tarihte T\u00fcrklerin arkalar\u0131na ta\u015f ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ne duydum ne de \u00f6yle bir bilgiye rastlad\u0131m. Bu anekdot b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ihtimalle internette dola\u015fan ger\u00e7ek olmayan ama bir o kadar g\u00fczel olan uyduruk bilgilerden biri sadece. Sahi, internet ortam\u0131nda ne kadar \u00e7ok sahte bilgi dola\u015f\u0131yor, de\u011fil mi? Zaten leyla olan akl\u0131m\u0131z b\u00f6ylelikle buland\u0131k\u00e7a bulan\u0131yor\u2026<\/p><p>Neyse d\u00f6nelim arkada\u015f kelimesine. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131mda ikinci bir anlat\u0131ya rastlad\u0131m ve bu anlat\u0131m bana daha oturakl\u0131, ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i geldi. Diyorlar ki arkada\u015f kelimesi arka ve da\u015f s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerinden t\u00fcremi\u015ftir. Arka s\u0131rt anlam\u0131na gelirken, da\u015f eki de ortakl\u0131k, payda\u015fl\u0131k anlam\u0131nda kullan\u0131l\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla arkada\u015f demek s\u0131rtta\u015fl\u0131k, birbirine s\u0131rt vermek, birbirini korumak, kollamak demektir. Ne kadar etkileyici bir anlam, ya da bana \u00f6yle gelmi\u015ftir kim bilir\u2026<\/p><p>Sonra d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm de insan\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir, de\u011ferlidir. Ancak insan\u0131n kendi kendine arkada\u015f olabilmesi as\u0131l m\u00fchim oland\u0131r. Kendine arkada\u015f olan insan, yani kendine s\u0131rt \u00e7\u0131kan, koruyup kollayan ki\u015fi kendisine \u015fefkat ve anlay\u0131\u015fla yakla\u015f\u0131r. Utanmak, kibirlenmek, kendine k\u0131zmak, kendini ele\u015ftirmek, kendini yermek, \u00fczmek ve ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmek yerine kendisini sakinle\u015ftiren, iyi telkinlerde bulunan, teselli eden, sevgi ile kabullenen, sayg\u0131l\u0131 ve affedici bir i\u00e7 sese sahip olan insan en iyi arkada\u015f\u0131 bulmu\u015ftur benim nazar\u0131mda. Kendi kendine arkada\u015f olmay\u0131 ba\u015faran insan kendine hakim olur ve nerede, ne zaman, nas\u0131l davranaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kolayl\u0131kla belirleyerek kendi yolunu \u00e7izer, bu da onun kaderi olur i\u015fte. Hi\u00e7 fark ettiniz mi, kafam\u0131z\u0131n en \u00e7ok kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, yolumuzu kaybetti\u011fimiz anlar kendimize d\u00fc\u015fman oldu\u011fumuz zamanlara denk d\u00fc\u015fer!<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Mart 2025 \/ G\u00fclsen ADALI<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kendi kendine arkada\u015f olmak \u00f6nemlidir Ara ara kelimelerin pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fmek gibi\u00a0 bir huyum var benim, \u00e7ocukluktan gelen\u2026 Acaba nereden geliyor, k\u00f6keni nedir, anlam\u0131 nedir, basit bir kelime mi, t\u00fcremi\u015f mi yoksa bile\u015fik mi diye iz s\u00fcrerim. En son arkada\u015f kelimesine tak\u0131ld\u0131m\u2026 asl\u0131nda tak\u0131lmad\u0131m, kelime \u00f6n\u00fcme \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. \u0130nternette izledi\u011fim bir videoda arkada\u015f kelimesinin arka ve ta\u015f [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2129,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tuerkce"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2275"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2275\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2280,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2275\/revisions\/2280"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2129"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/guelsenadali.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}